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Why do we sabotage ourselves?Read time: 3 minutes Welcome to David Beats Goliath—for founders who refuse to live small stories. Dear Founders,Thinking the algorithm controls your future? In every generation, people invent invisible forces to explain why they feel stuck. We used to blame the stars. Today, we blame the algorithm. “It’s saturated.” “The algorithm hates me.” “I guess the platform changed again.” This story feels modern because it wears the mask of logic. But psychologically, it’s ancient. It’s what humans do when agency starts to feel heavy. The Invisible Story at WorkVisibility, success, and relevance are controlled by platforms—not people. Once a founder accepts this story, something subtle happens. They stop building. They don’t ask, “What am I creating?” And that question quietly shrinks them. The Story Beneath the ComplaintWhen founders say, “The algorithm hates me,” they think they’re making a technical observation. But... they’re not. They’re revealing a story. And like every powerful story, it has a structure. Four moves:
If you want to stop living under it, you have to see it whole. So let’s break it down—not to shame it, 1. The Slot Machine FallacyBlaming the algorithm turns your business into a casino. Pull the lever. If the algorithm decides your fate, then your work has no intrinsic value outside distribution. That’s the lie. The truth? People don’t love things because an algorithm showed it to them. The algorithm doesn’t bake the pizza. 2. Competition vs. the AlgorithmIsn't it ironic? Founders will fight competitors (tooth and nails!), An algorithm is indifferent. A competitor actually wants your customers. So what’s really happening? If a founder is willing to battle a competitor They’re afraid of being ignored. It’s easier to say “the system is rigged” 3. Consistency vs. DestinyPlatforms reward consistency, not destiny. That distinction matters. The Invisible Story: “I’m meant for something bigger, but the platform is blocking my path.” Reality:
When founders outsource agency to the algorithm, they stop being creative and start becoming reactionary instead. They chase trends. And slowly, they bleed out and burn out. 4. Making the Algorithm “Like You”The paradox? If you want the algorithm to “love” you, Obsess over the person on the other side of the screen. The algorithm is a proxy for human attention. When you deliver real value to real people, Not because it’s fair. Victim vs. ArchitectOne lives inside the system. The Line Most Founders Need to HearThe algorithm isn’t your boss. And right now, too many founders are letting their employee tell them: “Sorry, we’re closed today. Not enough engagement.” That’s not wisdom. The ChoiceSmall stories blame systems. You don’t beat the algorithm by hacking it. And that starts the moment you STOP giving too much credit to the machine, and start serving the human at the core. Yours truly, |
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